Getting Others to Like You

Why Needing Others to Like You Is Holding You Back
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“A psychiatrist once told me early in treatment, “Stop trying to make me like you,” and what a sobering and welcome smack in the face that statement was. Yet somehow, every day of my life is still a campaign for…

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cultivating creativity

Cultivating Your Own Creativity
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“Around here, however, we don’t look backwards for very long. We keep moving forward, opening up new doors and doing new things, because we’re curious…and curiosity keeps leading us down new paths.” – Walt Disney Company on ‘Creativity’ Creativity is something…

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Covid Transformation

The Conscious Professional: Our Covid Story of Transformation
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This year has really been a bit of a blur since our holiday in March when Jack and I were stuck in Mexico wondering if BA would be sending a plane to bring us home! (Have you noticed how time…

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Mindful Job Searching

6 Tips for Mindful Job Searching
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“That’s when I first learned that it wasn’t enough to just do your job; you had to have an interest in it, even a passion for it.” – Charles Bukowski For most people, their job makes up a significant portion…

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Becoming More Empathetic

6 Tips for Becoming More Empathetic
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“Sometimes all a person wants is an empathetic ear; all he or she needs is to talk it out. Just offering a listening ear and an understanding heart for his or her suffering can be a big comfort.” – Roy…

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Dealing with Fear

Thoughts on Dealing with Fear
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“Don’t be afraid of your fears. They’re not there to scare you. They’re there to let you know that something is worth it.” –C. JoyBell C. on how to deal with fear. Although we may not like to admit it,…

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Reasons You May Be Emotional

Reasons You May Be Emotional
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“Your emotions make you human. Even the unpleasant ones have a purpose. Don’t lock them away. If you ignore them, they just get louder and angrier.” – Sabaa Tahir, ‘A Torch Against the Night’ Emotions are present and vitally important. They help…

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My Pride Story

Neil Seligman: My Pride Story
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Normally at this time of year Jack and I would be out in Soho celebrating Pride with friends and strangers. This year is a bit quieter, but with everything going on in our world I believe Pride’s message of inclusivity, diversity…

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beginners guide to meditation

Beginner’s Guide to Meditation
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Meditation is the simple practice of coming to a stop and exploring your experience with the intention of cultivating presence, awareness and kindness. Think of it as navigating from doing mode to being mode. Meditation often feels very ordinary –…

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Press: Neil Featured in American Express Essentials
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Neil Seligman: A Journey Into One’s Own Mind Neil has collaborated with American Express Essentials to bring you a peice about connecting with the self… “Stressed out? Overwhelmed? Anxious about the future? Mindfulness expert Neil Seligman advises taking a moment…

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